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Ice cream man sighting!

July 22nd, 2006

hoodsie please!
Today we went to the Learned Pond beach and the ice cream man was there. We don’t get one in our hood and I was so excited to see the truck, but about  20 minutes earlier we had got frappes at Gerard Farms so as much as I wanted to go up to the window and order a hoodsie or a screwball, I just couldn’t manage it.  Although we did end up getting a treat in that the beach was not crowded at all. I’m guessing because of the on and off rain we had today.Last time we went to Learned Pond, it was an absolute zoo.  The water was crowded, people were ignoring the lifeguards who we heard yelling repeatedly, “Stop doing that!”.  Then there was a little confrontation with a kid’s mom and the lifeguards.
I guess this girl was told to stop doing something and she kept doing it so a lifeguard shouted for her to stop.  Then the mother came stomping onto the docks and yelled “Hey! You don’t yell at my child like that, OKAY?” and the life guard explained that the girl had kept doing something she’s not supposed to and the mom (now accompanied by her friend who was chiming in too) said “You don’t yell at my child okay?? You have no right to yell at her!  I’m the one that gave birth to her -OKAY?”  This attracted more lifeguards and it went on for a few minutes.  Just when I was expecting everyone in the water to start chanting “JER-RY, JER-RY!” it came to an abrupt end with the mother yelling “I’ll see you in court! OKAY??” and then she grabbed her kid by the hand and stomped off with her friend following her.

I could see that last statement making sense if the lifeguard wasn’t doing her job but I’m not sure why the mother was threatening her with court for doing what she was supposed to and enforcing beach rules. I give the lifeguards a lot of credit because on busy days that beach can be pretty unruly. We go there pretty much because we can walk to it, but we’re considering getting in the car and driving to a quieter beach. 

2 Comments »

  1. I was a lifeguard one summer. Note the ONE. It was at a posh (very) private beach club on Long Island.

    I had several run ins with mothers like this, filthy rich, shit-talking with their gal pals by the pool while their kids held someone underwater.

    i’d get after the kids and get the whole “you piece of shit trash below me employee… don’t you speak to my little angel with an authoritative tone. you speak to me first, and i will speak with my darling about his dangerous behavior.” kinds of attitudes.

    seriously. what the hell is wrong with people. teaching a child from a young age not to listen to an authority figure who has his/her safety in task is incredibly dangerous.

    (i came via universal hub).

    Comment by christine — July 22, 2006 @ 3:30 pm

  2. Apparently your lifeguard training was deficient in that you were not trained to psychically match the children in the pool with their parents. What are you supposed to do, scan the crowd till you spot the adult who most resembles the brat trying to drown his buddy?

    Sheesh.

    Comment by Catherine — September 23, 2007 @ 3:49 am

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